A private investigator has shared a key warning sign you should keep in mind if you suspect your partner of cheating on you – and people have backed it up with their own experiences
A private investigator has shared the major cheating sign that ‘everyone misses’ – and it could keep them stuck in an unfaithful relationship for years. PI Cassie, who works for Venus Investigations, has taken to the @venusinvestigations TikTok account to share the key signs your partner might be cheating on you.
Cassie said: “This is the sneaky cheating sign that everyone seems to miss. We all know the classics like guarding their phone, sprucing themselves up, working so late that might as well live in the office. But the sign people often miss is the sudden passion for a new hobby. It might mean they’re sneaking around with someone who has the same passion for the same hobby and are trying to impress them.”
She went onto explain how this can show itself through a sudden passion for surfing or country music when they’re never shown interest in it before.
However, she says you shouldn’t jump to conclusions as soon as your partner shows an interest in a new activity – but instead says it could act as a warning sign if you’ve noticed a change in their overall behaviour alongside this.
Cassie added: “It can be a sign that something else is going on. A new hobby on its own can be nothing. But if other signs are showing up, add this one to the list.”
Commenting on her post, one user said: “Mine got into drawing a few times. I’m thinking he’s tried a few times for the same girl.”
Another user added: “Yes, my first wife did exactly that. Then my last girlfriend did that so I knew what was coming and yet I was in the wrong for calling her out for it.”
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A third user said: “Or they tell you that social media is such a time waster when they see you scrolling social media, also adding they’re going to deactivate their account but they’re on it all the time.”
One more user added: “I agree with this. My ex suddenly brought home a CD of someone who I knew he’d never like, as he always made fun of that genre.
“Years later, I understood when I found out what had really been going on. Funny what sticks in your mind after separation.”
A final user said: “Literally mine started listening to country music just recently after being uncharacteristically happy lately.”
If you suspect your partner is cheating on you, Everyday Health suggests speaking to a therapist about your concerns, regulating your nervous system, and reaching out to loved ones for support.
Not only this but you should calmly confront your partner about your suspicions while focusing on the facts without blame.
For closure, or to put your mind at ease, you might find comfort in asking them why they cheated on you. However, be aware this information may not be helpful in your healing process.
You should always allow yourself to feel your emotions and take your time to decide whether you want to work it out with your partner or walk away.