When Terri’s boyfriend started making ‘spicy content’ with other men, she wasn’t just relaxed about it, she actually had a hand in helping film it, which confuses many…
A couple has opened up about their unconventional relationship set-up, which would leave many people feeling confused, and maybe even hurt. Terri and Ryan are in a relationship, but he admitted: “I get intimate with other men on camera, but I’m not gay.” Strangers have described their partnership as a “bit odd,” saying “you can’t be doing that,” but the couple explained on Love Don’t Judge’s YouTube channel why it has no negative impact on their relationship.
Not only does Ryan “get intimate with men,” but Terri is behind the camera filming the antics, which he described as being “gay for pay”. Terri said she “doesn’t care” about what he does.
Terri explained she makes “spicy content” too, so she’s used to the goings on of the industry, explaining if they make a few videos a month, they “don’t need to work for a couple of months”.
Ryan shared he makes spicy content with men because it “makes a lot more money,” sharing that monthly earnings can vary from between £2,000 to £6,000 “on average”. However, some have accused him of homophobia for claiming to be straight and profiting off the LGBTQ+ community.
Terri claimed it’s “just work” to both of them, but Ryan joked she “loves it”. Terri also said she makes content with women, so she “understands”.
They discussed their friends and family try to avoid speaking about it because it makes them uncomfortable, and Ryan’s family thinks he does “modelling”.
Ryan also receives death threats from people online for being a “straight male making spicy content online with men,” but he said when it comes from faceless profiles, he’s not interested and it doesn’t mean anything to him.
“In my mind, I’m picturing someone sat in their mum’s basement in dirty underwear,” he joked.
Ryan said: “It makes us money, so any type of feedback, negative or positive, keep it coming”.
Terri’s mum then appeared in the video, admitting that when she found out her daughter was making spicy content, she was “apprehensive” and “worried.”
She admitted she was “surprised” Ryan started sleeping with men, and she asked her daughter whether she feels “jealous” about him sleeping with others.
Ryan said they “maintain boundaries in work by sticking to professional people,” and they’re open with each other if they feel uncomfortable with the way someone has behaved.
Terri’s mum said she can see that they “really get on,” however, as she gave them both a hug saying that she was happy for them.
At the end of the video, Ryan gushed that Terri is the “most laid back person” he could have ever wished to meet, saying she can handle him.
Terri said she loves how she can have “banter” with Ryan, saying he’s just her “type”.