Hardworking parents in this modern age value practical skills and habits, including managing money wisely and changing bed sheets regularly, the new research shows
New research reveals the top skills and traits modern parents most want their kids to have learned, before they fly the nest.
A good work ethic came top with 66 per cent, followed by having respect for older people (64 per cent), being confident (64 per cent) and being kind (62 per cent).
Yet many also believe practical skills, such as managing money wisely (58 per cent), keeping a tidy room (57 per cent) and changing bed sheets regularly (42 per cent) are integral.
Almost half (49 per cent) felt they would be able to pat themselves on the back, if their child spent time away from their phone, while 52 per cent rated the idea of their offspring being a free thinker.
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The survey by PGL Beyond, was commissioned to mark the launch of Skills4Life , their new programme which helps young people develop essential life skills.
The poll found respecting other people’s views (54 percent) is also important. As is being able to stand up for yourself (54 percent), having empathy (52 percent), having the ability to problem-solve (50 percent) and being able to prioritise your mental health (48 percent) also made the list of skills parents hope their kids will leave home with.
When asked why it was important for their teen to learn a range of skills, mums and dads said they were vital to be able to raise their own children, to find the right partner, to maintain friendships and to get a job.
In fact, these skills are so important that eight in ten (79 percent) think that practical and life skills should be taught in schools. More than half (52 percent) say they have tried to teach their child life skills – yet 62 percent believe they are currently unprepared for life outside the family home.
Anthony Jones, CEO of PGL Beyond, said: “The research shows that parents are working hard to prepare their children for life outside the family home. Making the leap from education into the world of work is a defining milestone for young people, so it’s vital to develop life skills alongside academic learning.
“Independence, confidence and empathy are essential qualities that will equip anyone to better deal with life’s inevitable challenges. These behaviours are best learnt through meaningful experiences which give young people the freedom to try, fail and succeed for themselves. Delivered through the power of outdoor adventure, our Skills4Life programme is designed to help young people learn lessons that that will be remembered for years to come.”
85 percent wish they had let their child do more and learn on their own as they were growing up, so much so that 96 percent believe that learning through trial and error is the best way to stand on your own two feet.