Dale Smith is planning to move his family to Thailand with ‘nothing but a bag of clothes’ to seek a better quality of life – and he’s urged others not to live ‘in regret’
A father-of-two is ready to uproot his family from the UK and move to Thailand with “nothing but a bag of clothes”, as he seeks an enhanced life quality and urges others not to live “in regret”. Dale Smith, 37, along with his wife, Kim, 36, and their children Noah, 10, and Molly, eight, has grown tired of feeling “trapped” and dissatisfied with life in Britain, where his earnings are consumed by escalating expenses and his kids are unhappy with their schooling.
The frustrated HGV driver shared that he and his brood are itching to shake off the monotony of counting down to weekends – and they’ve set their sights on Thailand’s “beautiful scenery” and “incredible food” for a fresh start. The family’s plan involves selling their three-bedroom house, a 2015 Ford Focus, and almost all their gadgets and belongings to fund their relocation, dreaming of touching down in Bangkok armed with merely “a bag of clothes” and a nest egg.
Opting for homeschooling over traditional education, Dale intends to integrate the children with fellow expatriate communities abroad, hoping that Noah and Molly will embrace “learn new languages and learn about new cultures”. Dale’s been documenting his venture on TikTok, with his most viewed video, explaining his motives for leaving, like the soaring cost of living and dismal weather, amassing over one million views.
Feeling “terrified” yet “excited” the family has eyed November to kickstart the plan, with ambitions to list their Nottinghamshire house on the market come August.
“Don’t live your life in regret,” Dale urged. “If you want to do something like this, don’t be afraid, don’t give up. It scares me to death to think we’re just chasing this dream of ‘one day this will happen’ or ‘when we’re retired it will be nice’. We need to embrace this and enjoy our lives, we’ve got nothing to lose.”
Seeking an escape, Dale said that his family feel “trapped” and “fed up” with life in Britain. He said: “We just want to break out of this routine, I feel like life is just flying by. You wake up on a Monday, you’re fed up and you can’t wait for the weekend – you’re wishing the days away.”
Dale has also grown disenchanted due to increasing crime rates and living costs, declaring the UK “not a nice place to live any more”. He added: “The prices of everything are going up and the streets are a state.”
He discussed a career shift to HGV driving which initially “doubled” his income a few years ago, but it didn’t lead to financial freedom. He said: “That extra money is just going on bills, the bills have now doubled – you’re banging your head against a brick wall.”
Dale and his family are set to shake things up by moving to Thailand, with his two children reportedly keen on the idea “straight away”. “I think this is the right time for them, they don’t enjoy school here and they find it a bit pointless,” he said.
Dale and Kim plan to homeschool their kids in Thailand, focusing on English, basic maths, and subjects they’re passionate about, like history, video editing, and photography.
“Kids are sponges, so hopefully they will start learning the Thai language,” he said. “Noah and Molly will still have the opportunity to do their GCSEs if they want to, we’re not holding them back on anything in relation to their education.”
To cover the travel expenses, Dale revealed that the family intends to land in Thailand with minimal possessions. They’re looking to sell their house, car, electronics, and most belongings – keeping only sentimental items stored with relatives in the UK.
“We plan to go to Thailand with nothing but a bag of clothes, because what else would we need?” he said. Although the family’s travel plans aren’t set in stone, they aim to depart the UK by November, contingent on selling their house, which they hope to list in August.
Dale revealed they’ve been knee-deep in “loads” of research for their visa applications, flights, and desired destinations, anticipating a one-week stint in Bangkok before settling down the coast in Hua Hin for several months.
“We need to base ourselves somewhere cheap for a month or two to try and figure out our spending costs – from there, we’ll work out where we’ll go next,” he said. The thrill of “adventure” is what Dale is looking forward to most during their explorations.
“I don’t like having things planned, every day we’ll be waking up wondering what we are going to do today,” he admitted. Dale also spoke about his hope to rent a furnished property abroad, easing one potential worry: “one thing (they) don’t have to worry about”.
With close family back in the UK, Dale hinted at a possible return, “it depends” leaving their plans open-ended. “That’s the joy of doing what we are doing, we can come back if we need to and spend quality time with our relatives,” he said.
Although Dale chose not to disclose the amount saved for the journey, he remains confident they have sufficient funds for a couple of years. He’s also chronicling their adventurous leap on TikTok and YouTube via @4go.traveling, which might bolster their budget with “a little bit of extra income”.
His TikTok has gone viral, racking up a staggering 1.5 million views, featuring Dale in his car, sharing his reasons to move abroad – and it’s struck a chord with viewers who’ve also left the UK.
“I think it’ll be fun,” he said. “It’s scary and I’m terrified, but I think it’ll be amazing – especially for the children. We’ll have a better quality of life, we’ll be more present with the kids, the weather will be nicer and the scenery will be prettier – it’s a no-brainer.”