A woman’s husband died almost eight years ago, just a few days after their child’s sixth birthday – but a recent phone call from a stranger has left her in a state of ‘shock’ with ‘many questions’
A widowed woman has been left floored after receiving an unexpected phone call seven years after her husband’s death.
Her partner passed away almost eight years ago, she explained. They have three children together and he also had two children in a previous marriage, with all five kids aged between 12 and 20 years old.
The woman explained she recently got a phone call from her husband’s ex-wife, who informed her another woman had been in touch “who stated that she got pregnant just before he died and that she has a seven-year-old child from him. She also mentioned that she is going for his survivor benefits.”
The woman said they’re all in a state of “shock” and each have “so many questions”. On Reddit, she penned: “Why wait seven years to go for benefits? Why wait 7 years period?? Why not go for them when she found out she was pregnant or after she gave birth???”
She added: “We did the maths and if it is true, the baby was conceived less than a week before he passed. We had separated for a few months, but we worked on our relationship, we still loved each other and wanted to make it work, so we got back together a little before our middle child’s birthday. Two days after our child’s sixth birthday, he passed away.”
The woman explained her husband was an only child and now she and his ex-wife have “no idea how to tell his parents, let alone [their] children.”
She asked whether they ought to “wait” until they know “for sure” or “get answers” and asked for her fellow Reddit users’ advice. People were keen to share their thoughts.
One said: “I wouldn’t speak to anyone about it in my family until she shows some sort of concrete proof. No need to start drama in the family and kids for something that isn’t concrete.
“If money is involved at that point a lawyer is probably recommended. Like someone else stated she probably doesn’t have legal power to require your children to be DNA tested to prove her allegations.”
Another said: “The advice is to make the woman prove it and not help her do so and to warn any adult children of the same. This isn’t just about SS benefits, this woman is going to be gunning for the estate as well and OP has an obligation to protect her family and that does not include this possible cheater.”
A third commented: “Exactly! A DNA test done at a facility. OP could bring in one of the adult children with ID so whatever the results are should hold up in court. If the kid is his, he deserves the dad’s social security benefits. It takes nothing from OP’s children. If he is not the son then it shuts it all down, see ya later”.
Someone else replied that “cutting in” another child could affect the amount the woman’s children receive.