After decades in the industry, mistress Gweneth Lee is planning to switch things up and go for younger men this Christmas – and is warning their wives to watch out
A woman dubbed ‘Britain’s most famous mistress’ has revealed her wish for Santa this year.
Professional girlfriend Gweneth Lee, 55, claims to have bedded over a hundred married men and is usually inundated during the festive season with lavish gifts from her many lovers. Last year, she bagged a £5,000 trip to Costa Rica as well as a few new cars – but this year, she wants something entirely different.
Discussing Christmas, the experienced mistress – who usually meets older partners through affairs websites – explained: “I want a toyboy this year. In the past few weeks, I can’t seem to get enough of younger men. I’m calling myself the ‘holiday cougar’ as that’s all I’m focusing on this Christmas.”
Gweneth, who shares her time between London and California, US, started dating older men in her 20s, opting for those in their 30s or 40s. But as she got older, so did her roster of men – and now, in her mid-50s, her type is swiftly changing. She said: “One of my friends said it to me straight forward: ‘It’s time to start cougaring’.”
“I’ve always gone for older men, but now they’re getting too old for me,” she said. “I don’t need someone to buy me a house, or lavish gifts, or anything else really, as I already have all of that. It’s taken a lot of adapting, as I’m no longer going for the sophisticated, white-haired, conservative man. I’m looking at the slender, physically fit, with tattoos and a bearded man who can give me a new experience.”
Gweneth, who is often called the ‘husband stealer’ currently has four lovers on the go and claims her messages are constantly “flooded” with younger men wanting to spend the night with her. But she never had the courage to take the jump, until a 39-year-old found his way through – and now, the rest is history.
“He spotted me on social media and started messaging me, saying he was going to be near me soon,” she said. “I agreed to meet up with him for lunch and it turned into him booking me my own room in a really luxurious hotel, so we could spend the night together. I was wined and dined, and that was the only expectation; nothing else. With older men, it’s all about rules, courting and winning me over with gifts.
“But for those younger, they aren’t even getting me gifts, as they know I already have everything. They focus more on the experience of having great food and conversations, appearing intrigued to hear about my experiences as an older woman. I worried that dating younger would mean they’d notice my sagging skin and that I’d need Botox – but they don’t see that. They’re just simply impressed; you don’t get that with men my age.”
Before, she had given up on dating, but now her outlook on life has completely changed and she’s feeling more youthful than ever. And for Christmas, her diary is filled with festive meet-ups with her toyboy collective.
She added: “I’m flying to London for two weeks of solidly meeting up with men who want to show me off, which is something I’ve never experienced before. It’s bringing my youth back; when I’m with these men, I feel like the best version of me. I probably wouldn’t go for anybody under 35, as my nieces and nephews are around that age – so it’d be weird.
“But the sex is unbelievable, they do mental roleplay from the minute they lay their eyes on you. It’s like they’re skilled hunters going after their prey. With dating apps, men are looking for their next fix. But cougar hunters are looking for the highest prize they can find. It’s a game and I’m going to be at it for hours. I will be their Mrs Claus – and may the best elf win.”
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