A woman took to TikTok to share the unusual ways she’s using ChatGPT to help her find ‘her future husband’ in 2025 by changing her daily routine – but people can’t decide if it’s genius or insane
Dating is hard. While dating apps were seen as revolutionising the dating scene, recent studies have shown that 91% of men and 94% of women are finding dating more difficult now than before.
Because of this, people are finding more creative ways to find a partner. From sliding into DMs on social media to simply making eye contact with someone, the possibilities to find love are endless.
Now, one woman took to TikTok to share her own quest of finding love by explaining her unique plan of using ChatGPT. The first thing she did was to add a man to her vision board for the upcoming year.
The next thing she wanted to do was to use ChatGPT to help her find the man of her dreams. And the first thing needed for this was a list of everything she wanted her future man to be like.
“Basically for years, I’ve had a list of all the things, all of their traits, characteristics, everything that I want in my ideal man,” she explained. “I took my list and I said to ChatGPT ‘If I want a man that has all of the qualities below, what kind of woman do you think he would want?'”
She added all of the qualities from her list at the end of the message before submitting her question, which made ChatGPT generate a list of traits that it believed the man’s ideal woman would have.
Erin read through the list and compared it to herself, saying she had some of the qualities, but was in need of some improvement for others.
She then asked ChatGPT: “Based on these qualities, what would be the daily activities or schedule of this woman? Yep, I got a whole schedule between the wake up, the workouts, the breakfasts, the work – everything.”
She then told her viewers that she was planning on following the schedule until she finds her future husband. She also added: “And I’m going to refer back to my list often to make sure that I’m not veering from the list.”
The video quickly went viral, racking up thousands of views and people were quick to share their thoughts in the comments. While some were calling Erin ‘insane’ for doing this, others shared their positive thoughts.
One person shared: “Chat GPT helped me move out of a useless relationship, I used to paste all conversations there and ask Chat GPT what the message really mean, at the end of it I decided to end the relationship.”
Another person said: “Wishing you all the luck! I also wanted to find a man, but instead started to work on myself and realised, that all I need is me! Very surprising outcome, but I am happy. Just to say, sometimes we think that we want something, but we need a different thing.”
And a third added: “”Why do I feel like this is going to work?” So would you try it? Let us know in the comments section below.
