A model has revealed her extensive list of requirements she has for any man who is hoping to date her – as she said she’s wasted too much of her own time and money
In the run-up to Valentine’s Day, anyone wishing to date the ‘world’s most perfect woman’ must adhere to her strict requirements.
Janaína Prazeres has some non-negotiables when it comes to her dating life, and makes sure the men she gives her time to tick all of her boxes – and there are quite a few. To start with, the 25-year-old outright refuses to be courted by someone who still lives with their parents and calls them “children who avoid adult responsibilities”.
She also said any man who hopes to date her should fork out £4,000 a month for her “beauty fee” as she said women already spend enough cash to look good for men so it’s their turn to pay.
While she is still single, the model said she’s lost too much time and money dating the wrong men, so now makes sure whoever she spends her time with is up to her high standards. “I have very clear rules that, for me, are fundamental when evaluating a potential partner. A man who still lives with his mum is unlikely to have the autonomy needed for a serious relationship. I have [been on dates with men who live with their mums] and most of the time, it was even worse than I imagined.”
Janaína said men who can’t be independent enough to leave their parents house “probably lacks the emotional maturity for a serious relationship” and said it’s hard to build something with someone who stays in their comfort zone. “I’m not here to raise or teach anyone, I’m looking for a partner, not a child,” she said.
When it comes to her beauty maintenance, Janaína said she wants a man to cover her aesthetic procedures, haircare, and daily maintenance, pay for her personal trainer and make “other investments” in her appearance. Her reasoning for this is because “men today want women in the old-fashioned style – always impeccable, well-groomed, feminine” but added: “They forget that, in the past, men also played a different role. If they want a classic woman, they need to be willing to act like classic men.”
She said it requires investment and commitment and has lost a lot of time and money investing in failed relationships. “I’ve lost a lot of time and money investing in relationships that didn’t work out.
“I spent years taking care of myself, keeping up my appearance, spending on aesthetics, clothes, the gym… and in the end, I was left at a loss. I even considered suing some ex-boyfriends for the money I wasted trying to stay perfect for them. Women already spend so much on self-care to look good.”
Janaína revealed she’s also cautious about men who use dating apps “too much” as well as those who “lack politeness and spend too much time on grooming.” The model has been dubbed ‘The Perfect Woman’ by Playboy Norway in the past, and she expects to be treated in accordance with her title. She said: “I don’t go out with guys who seem to be there just to rack up as many matches [on dating apps] as possible.
“I can spot that right away, and I don’t want to waste my time on someone who isn’t authentic. I like men who treat me with care and respect. Opening the car door, for example, is a sign of politeness that shows how much he values the moment and my company.” She also said she likes men with a “natural, robust style – a beard, a modern touch, but no exaggeration.”
While she is criticized for not being a feminist, she doesn’t think there is anything wrong with her strict requirements. She said: “Feminism advocates freedom of choice, and this is mine. I choose to value myself and only engage with someone who understands what that means.
“For me, a relationship must be beneficial for both sides, and that balance is essential,” she said, adding that her rules save her time and help her to avoid disappointment as she now knows what she doesn’t want in a partner.
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